Masturbation is an important part of healthy sexual development, and male masturbation is no different. However, it’s something that not many men feel comfortable talking about, let alone actually doing it. So today I want to tell you how to fuck yourself.
It all begins with a good attitude. You have to be confident and comfortable with your own sexuality, and be willing to explore and let yourself go. Think of it like this: masturbation is an opportunity to get to know your own body and get to know how you like to be pleasured. Ask yourself: what do I find arousing and what kind of stimulation do I want?
Once you’ve worked that out, begin by getting in a comfortable position, either laying down or in a seated position. From here you can start exploring your body, taking note of any sensitive areas that may be pleasurable when aroused. With experience, you’ll eventually learn how to pleasure yourself in certain ways that you enjoy the most.
Next, you need to start getting aroused. This can be anything from watching porn or reading erotica, to just fantasizing in your head. Start exploring your body and don’t be afraid to touch yourself wherever you feel comfortable. Take your time to explore and find new ways to experience pleasure. From here, you can start to masturbate more intensely.
When it comes to the actual masturbation, you want to find a rhythm that works for you. Experiment with new pacing, such as varying the speed or changing which hand you use, to find what feels best for you. Of course, you can always vary up when it comes to the kinds of stimulation you give yourself too.
Finally, let yourself reach climax. This can feel incredibly liberating and your session of ejaculations will likely leave you feeling much better about yourself. Afterwards, take a moment to relax and treat yourself kindly. Remember that masturbation is a natural part of life and nothing to be ashamed of.
Now that you know the basics of how to fuck yourself, let’s make sure you are fully aware of your options. There are a wide variety of products you can use to help you experience different kinds of pleasure. These range from dildos, vibrators and other toys, to various lubricants, pleasure creams and massagers.
Using toys can be particularly advantageous, as it can open up a whole new world of pleasurable sensations that you can’t get without them. Different kinds of toys and lubes vary in texture and intensity and can even be used to simulate different kinds of sex. Be sure to pick up some quality toys that fit your own desires and preferences.
Another great way to experience orgasm is by using various kinds of massage. Massage is an incredibly soothing and relaxing activity that can often lead to intense pleasure. You can use massage to stimulate the erogenous zones all over the body, including the genital area. Use oil to help create a more sensual experience and to give yourself a relaxing massage before and/or during masturbation.
It’s also worth making sure that you are fully prepared before you sit down to masturbate. Make sure you are in a comfortable and safe environment, and that you have access to all of the things you need. This includes things like lube, toys, and of course, some erotic material to get in the mood.
So there you have it, my friends. With a positive attitude, some good toys and lube, and a comfortable space, you are ready to explore the wonderful world of self-pleasure. I can assure you, it’ll be a journey that you won’t regret. So go on, let yourself go and above all, enjoy!
