When it comes to pleasure, sex toys most people traditionally think of sex toys. But what if you don’t have access one? Ah, here is where things get a bit unorthodox. I’m about to tell you all how to gape your ass without sex toys.
So, what do you need? Firstly, some lube. This is key. You can’t do anything without lube, so make sure you have that. Secondly, you need to be relaxed because, let’s face it, it won’t be pleasant if you’re tense and worried. Thirdly, you need something to insert. Now, you have a few options – fingers, a banana, or anything longer and slim that’s easy to grab. Last but not least, you need patience!
Now comes the process of stretching. Make sure your lube is at hand – you’ll need it. Slowly start exploring the boundaries of your anus with the finger. When it feels comfortable, start pushing inside and out, in and out, all the while making sure your breathing is steady. Feel the stretch and really be aware of the pleasure you’re giving yourself. It will become easier over time.
If you want to take it to the next level, you’ll need something bigger than your fingers. Now, if you don’t have anything else, like a cucumber or a carrot, you can always try a banana. Peel it and make sure it has no bruises. Put the lube on it and slowly push it inside. It’s important to remember to move it slowly and take your time. Then, when it feels comfortable, move it inside and out.
Eventually, this will also start feeling comfortable. Timing is everything; don’t push it too far, too fast or you run the risk of injuring yourself. When you feel comfortable with the size, you can start to add more length with different objects.
Finally, if you want to take it to the ultimate level, use a few objects and start double penetration. Make sure you are comfortable with the size and have lube on hand (or on the object). Insert one object inside your anus and feel the sensation as it stretches and tickles. Then, add another object and start moving them in and out.
This can be quite an intense experience and, as with any anal play, it is important to listen to your body and stop if it becomes too uncomfortable. As everyone’s body is different, it may take some practice to find what works best for you. With the right lube and guidance you can enjoy it safely and pleasurably. So, don’t be afraid to take that leap and give it a try – with all the rewards of pleasure that come with it!